Sunday Story…Message Sent

Is Not message received.

I can say just about anything and you will hear what you hear. Just because I said it doesn’t mean you actually heard it. You laid all your “stuff” on top of my words. “Stuff” like your own experience, your preparation to answer what I said, your willingness to deeply listen (or not), my use of language that is different than your understanding of the same language. With all that “stuff, it’s amazing we can communicate at all.

I can talk and talk and talk but unless you are listening and hearing, all my talk is for naught. It takes two to communicate. It takes effort to make sure you are understood and it takes effort to understand.

Deep listening is a gift. Give it often.

John Mariotti
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