Sunday Story…Kindness

I suspect most of my conservative friends think I’m liberal, and most of my liberal friends think I’m conservative. The fact is simple…I am neither…and I am both.

Let me tell you where I stand, because it's really simple. I will paraphrase a quote from the Dalai Lama: "My religion is simple, it is kindness." This is where I stand: On Kindness.

Here’s a quick test: if you must ask yourself whether what you are doing is kind, or whether what someone else is doing is kind, 9 out of 10 times (and probably 10 out of 10), it is not kind. Just the fact that you need to ask belies the fact.

I remember sitting in a room with Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, the founder of Non-Violent Communication, as he told the story of a session with a twice-convicted pedophile. Now, for most of us (me included), we would have a hard time finding compassion or empathy for someone who committed such heinous acts against any human, let alone a child. And Dr. Rosenberg admitted he had a really hard time finding any empathy for that individual.

He forced himself to sit and listen to the man's story without judgment. And he managed to discover empathy for what the man had gone through and the pain he subsequently forced on his victims. This didn’t excuse his actions, it didn’t exonerate him of his crimes, or even mitigate his actions. But by simply listening and showing empathy and kindness, he managed to shift his own judgment and treat another human with some measure of dignity.

Now, Dr. Rosenberg practiced nonjudgment and kindness for decades before he could dig so deeply into his own prejudices and judgments. I am not sure I am big enough to do that. But what I do know is that kindness will lead me to finding equanimity and harmony in my own life.

Every human, even the worst of us, deserves kindness. Every human, even the saintliest, deserves kindness. Every human, every time…Kindness.

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John Mariotti

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Sunday Story…GPP

 

When we are faced with an impending disaster or catastrophe, and look around, we may realize we are not as prepared as we should be. Then we go to the store, and all our neighbors and friends have realized they're not as prepared as they should be, and the shelves are empty. At that moment in time, you might kick yourself a little bit, wondering why you didn't stockpile a little bit further in advance when the shelves were full.

In CrossFit, we talk a lot about general physical preparedness. What if I had to walk 10 miles and be fresh and ready to go at the end? Could you do that? Are you physically prepared to achieve that task? That's the sort of thing we're talking about when we talk about general physical preparedness. It's not, "Can I do ten push-ups? Can I do fifteen pull-ups?" It's, "Can I pick up an injured person and carry them to safety? Can I sprint down the street if that was necessary to save my or somebody else's life?” This is general physical preparedness, and when it is necessary, and you don't have it, it is too late. Just like the old Chinese proverb, "The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. The second-best time is right now." Same thing for your fitness. Best time to start might have been twenty years ago, but the second-best time is right now. If you're already here and you're already reading this, you're already well on the way. If you're not, this is your wake-up call. Let's get prepared together.

If you're interested in building muscle and strength, sign up for a free fitness assessment at www.crossfitodyssey.com or reach out to me directly, and let's get you started on your journey to extraordinary results.

John Mariotti

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775-338-2412

 

Sunday Story…Change Your Story

Over the last couple of weeks, we've talked about making small changes to get big results. We've talked about changing our direction one or two degrees and finding an entirely new destination at the end of our journey.

But often, we find ourselves stymied by the stories that we are telling ourselves about our history, about what's happened in the past, the things you could do, things you couldn't do, why you couldn't do it, whose fault it was, and all of those stories that we tell ourselves around what has happened to us.

If we want to change our history, we must change the stories we tell about it. So, if you tell yourself, "I have never been athletic," "I have never been able to get in shape," and then you tell yourself, "I'll never be athletic," "I will never be able to get in shape." Failure isn't fatal, and success isn't permanent. All those things - failures, successes - are all part of the learning process.

We want to shift the stories we tell ourselves: "I’ve never been athletic YET," "I haven't found what works for me in the fitness area." You're going to keep trying until you find something that does work for you, for your life, for your fitness. That's your journey to extraordinary; it's not some destination; it's the learning process; it's the story you tell yourself.

So, let's keep on learning and keep on journeying to the extraordinary.

If you're interested in building muscle and strength, sign up for a free fitness assessment at www.crossfitodyssey.com or reach out to me directly, and let's get you started on your journey to extraordinary results.

John Mariotti

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Sunday Story…One Degree

Last week, I wrote about how a small daily action can lead to big accomplishments over time. Here’s another idea.

If you shift your focus, change your steering wheel, or increase your intensity just 1 degree, or 1 adjustment in any direction, your destination will change over time. Think about it. What would Columbus have discovered if he had shifted his course of direction just 1 degree over? Maybe he would have landed in Florida or Venezuela.

At 211 degrees, water is hot; at 212, it boils, and when it does, it produces steam, which produces energy (think steam locomotives). Here is a little movie that shows you how small changes make big differences:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h7XqZxsIyks

Where in your life can you make a small change and reap different rewards?

Maybe it’s as simple as saying something kind to someone. You thought the words but didn’t verbalize them. Nothing shifts; nothing changes. But what if those words landed and changed someone’s life? Maybe that person really needed to hear that today, and your words will change the trajectory of their life

We don’t always know when our actions will have an effect far beyond what we planned for or expected. Making a one-degree shift in your outlook could change the world, or at least how you see the world.

If you're interested in building muscle and strength, sign up for a free fitness assessment at www.crossfitodyssey.com or reach out to me directly, and let's get you started on your journey to extraordinary results.

John Mariotti

www.sunday-stories.blogspot.com

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Sunday Story…Small Tasks

We all know that consistency is the key to long-term growth and success. But it is very easy to lose sight of the significant accomplishments that take place from doing small tasks every day.

I recently got a recap from my Whoop strap of my activity over the last year. I am not going to bore you with all the details of my activity over the previous year. Suffice it to say, I found the recap very revealing in the overall progress made. Remember, this was my “knee” year, when I had my knee replaced around Thanksgiving.

Here is my point about consistency and how a small effort can turn into big results. Last year, according to Whoop, I walked about 4.2 million steps. 4,193,741 steps to be exact. Whaat!!! My first reaction was, “There’s no way! 4 million??” That is the equivalent of climbing Mt Everest 46 times! But when you break that down to a daily achievement, it is 11,490 steps every day of the year. Granted, I am probably moving a lot more than most people, but that still seems like a lot. Not 11,000 a day, but 4 million a year.

What did you do last year that surprised you at the end of the year? Did you get to the box over 200 times last year (that’s only 4 per week!) Did you tell your loved ones you loved them over 300 times last year (less than 1x day)? What else?

If you want to end next year with some impressive accomplishments, start small, start now, and do it every darn day! You'll be surprised at what you can accomplish by doing small tasks every day!

If you're interested in building muscle and strength, sign up for a free fitness assessment at www.crossfitodyssey.com or reach out to me directly, and let's get you started on your journey to extraordinary results.

John Mariotti

www.sunday-stories.blogspot.com

www.crossfitodyssey.com

775-338-2412