Here we are. Sitting at home, all alone, trying to figure out what to do, what’s next, whose fault is it, who to blame, when will things go back to the way they were…blah, blah, blah. We are living in interesting times.
How many pandemics have you lived through? Do you know? What exactly is a pandemic anyway?
A pandemic is simply an epidemic that got a passport and an around the world plane ticket. Ebola is not a pandemic because it remains relatively localized. The current CoVid 19 is a pandemic because it has moved persistently around the world.
There have been several pandemics in my lifetime…at least 4 since 1956. Most of them I had no idea about. Scratch that, in the last 60 years this is the only pandemic I can remember.
Why is that? How is it that this one is so paramount to all of us? Simply put, it is the information process. We all read the news. Whether it is Twitter, Facebook, Fox, or MSNBC we are inundated by information. And some of that information is wrong and some of it is actually misinformation. Too often when we read the news we are not becoming well-informed we are being emotionally exploited.
Because of that, the problem is not misinformation, the problem is fear. Fear makes people pay attention. Then they can be exploited. There is never a good decision made out of fear.
Look, Coronavirus is serious but panic is optional. Disconnect yourself from the culture of outrage, panic, and fear. Fear is what drives us to be mean to each other. It divides us and fuels all the negative thought processes...like racism, misogyny, homophobia and all the rest. When we are fearful we are much more susceptible to fallacious arguments and biases.
Here are some concrete things to do to manage or eliminate your fear:
Curate your information downloads. By that I mean you need to only spend a limited amount of time reading or listening to information about the crisis. Call it 15-30 minutes a day.
Next, make sure you are getting unbiased information as much as possible. In other words information free of opinions and bias. Just the facts, ma’am.
Fear does not get to hijack my brain. Perhaps the media has failed in its responsibility to provide honest, factual, and timely information. But it is my job not to fail in my responsibility to be an informed citizen.
Again, coronavirus is serious but panic, fear, terror, and worry are all optional. Choose a better option.
John Mariotti
www.crossfitodyssey.com
www.sunday-stories.blogspot.com
775-338-2412
Saturday, March 21, 2020
Saturday, March 14, 2020
Sunday Story…You, Me and Corona make Three
Crisis often masquerades as an opportunity. A crisis requires us to re-think and re-assess how and why we do things and in that examination lays the seeds for new ways of doing things, for different ways of looking at problems.
A crisis is uncomfortable. A crisis isn’t fun. A crisis is stressful. A crisis is out of our control. Yet, a crisis forces us into change. A crisis forces us to think outside our normal pathways. A crisis requires a new way of thinking about a problem that wasn’t a problem before.
I can look at this crisis as a problem to be dealt with, defeated. Or I can look at it as an opportunity to find a new way, to discover something else about myself and the world around me. It is rare to be able to solve a problem with the same level of thinking that created it or that existed before the problem occurred. I need to think differently, newly, with beginners eyes and a beginner's mind.
So what are you going to do? Wallow around, worrying about things you can’t change or are you going to do something about the things you can change? Are you going to get stuck, stay stuck in your current mindset or will you allow yourself the liberty to fly further and farther on the wings of these new and greater ideas?
It isn’t what happens…it is what you do with what happens.
John Mariotti
www.crossfitodyssey.com
www.sunday-stories.blogspot.com
775-338-2412
A crisis is uncomfortable. A crisis isn’t fun. A crisis is stressful. A crisis is out of our control. Yet, a crisis forces us into change. A crisis forces us to think outside our normal pathways. A crisis requires a new way of thinking about a problem that wasn’t a problem before.
I can look at this crisis as a problem to be dealt with, defeated. Or I can look at it as an opportunity to find a new way, to discover something else about myself and the world around me. It is rare to be able to solve a problem with the same level of thinking that created it or that existed before the problem occurred. I need to think differently, newly, with beginners eyes and a beginner's mind.
So what are you going to do? Wallow around, worrying about things you can’t change or are you going to do something about the things you can change? Are you going to get stuck, stay stuck in your current mindset or will you allow yourself the liberty to fly further and farther on the wings of these new and greater ideas?
It isn’t what happens…it is what you do with what happens.
John Mariotti
www.crossfitodyssey.com
www.sunday-stories.blogspot.com
775-338-2412
Saturday, March 7, 2020
Sunday Story…Not so action figures
When I was growing up I had a whole army of little green army guys…standing, kneeling, prone…with lots of different implements in their hands. Naturally, my brothers and I fought imaginary battle after battle. But those little figures were just representations of people doing actions. They really didn’t “do” anything. We did all the doing for them.
Those army men reminded us kids of the actions people could take. Like tin soldiers, pretend nutcrackers, or Barbie dolls the figurine didn’t actually do anything. They were just there to remind us of what could be done.
The world is full of stuff like that…I have shelves of books that remind me of the ideas they contain. The books don’t do anything in and of themselves, but seeing them sitting there represents to me the ideas, the “what’s possible” they contain within them. They help remind me to do or think or be a certain way. Flowers don’t love you; they just remind you that someone was thinking of you.
Surround yourself and your world with representations that invite your highest and best self. These are the totems of your aspirations…the things that will call you to the most beneficial actions. They will serve as an impetus to move you ever forward.
John Mariotti
www.crossfitodyssey.com
www.sunday-stories.blogspot.com
775-338-2412
Those army men reminded us kids of the actions people could take. Like tin soldiers, pretend nutcrackers, or Barbie dolls the figurine didn’t actually do anything. They were just there to remind us of what could be done.
The world is full of stuff like that…I have shelves of books that remind me of the ideas they contain. The books don’t do anything in and of themselves, but seeing them sitting there represents to me the ideas, the “what’s possible” they contain within them. They help remind me to do or think or be a certain way. Flowers don’t love you; they just remind you that someone was thinking of you.
Surround yourself and your world with representations that invite your highest and best self. These are the totems of your aspirations…the things that will call you to the most beneficial actions. They will serve as an impetus to move you ever forward.
John Mariotti
www.crossfitodyssey.com
www.sunday-stories.blogspot.com
775-338-2412
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