Sunday Story…So you want to…

Yesterday I saw a promotion for the CrossFit Games Open. For my regular readers, you know, the open is the first event of the CrossFit Games season and it is inclusive and anyone could win. So, yes, you could compete and beat the one of the fittest people on the planet. In the promo, the guy at the bar claims he is going to beat Khalipa (the #2 guy last year) in one of the workouts. Of course, Khalipa shows up behind him and the guy is a bit embarrassed. It is a very funny promotion.

I get a lot of people who say they want to get in shape, or get ripped, or___________ (fill in the blank). The facts are really simple…you can do anything you want to do if you are willing to pay the price to do it. You cannot solve a problem with the same mindset that caused the problem and you cannot get the results you want doing the same things you have always done.

In the world of fitness, or exercise, or improving your body composition, or losing weight, or improving your job or career (just about anything!) there are a few must dos. Here are 5 of them:

#1 Commit. There is an old story about the difference between a chicken and a pig at breakfast…the chicken (who lays eggs) is involved in breakfast, and the pig (slaughtered for bacon) is committed to breakfast. Be a pig. Be committed to your goal like the pig is to breakfast.

#2 Dial in your diet. It doesn’t matter what you are trying to do…go to school, lose weight, get ripped, beat Khalipa…you better feed your body and your mind good high quality food. This is critical to your success on whatever journey you are on. You can’t put crap in your body and expect a high quality performance any more than putting diesel in your gas car is going to work.

#3 Get some sleep. Sleep is a priority. We live in a society where lack of sleep is so prevalent that it is the norm. You need to figure out your sleep and how to get it done. It is just as important as eating right.

#4 Hire an expert. Seek out someone who knows how to get you where you want to go. Get a coach, a teacher, a mentor. Listen to them, do what they tell you to do and follow their instructions to the letter. Trust the training.

#5 Keep your eyes on the prize. You must have an unwavering gaze on where you want to be. Let nothing get in the way. There will always be something that tries to pull your attention away from what you say you want. This is the universe testing your resolve, testing you to see if what you say you want is really what you want. If you let those things get in your way, allow them to distract you, to pull your focus away from your goal you will never make it.

It doesn’t matter what your goal is, or what arena you have decided you want to play in. Eat right, sleep well, get help, commit and stay on track. Simple, not easy. Hard but worth it.

Now go get some.

Namaste

John Mariotti
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Sunday Story…Write it!

I keep a log book of all the workouts I have done. This is a roadmap of where I have been somewhere to look back and gauge progress. I just filled up this particular book and I turned all the way back to page one and what was written was this:

The Road to the Games

The first day was 9/04/2012. The last day was 6/18/2014. 21 months of workouts. 21 months of progress, 21 months of ups and downs, successes and frustrations all contained in one journal. 21 months of working towards a single goal, a goal that is now in sight. 30 days from today I will be in Los Angeles getting ready to walk into the arena to compete with 20 of the other fittest men for the title of Fittest in the World, ages 55-59.

That book contains a road map for how I achieved my goal. It is the daily record of work done. Any quest should have a similar record. We still read Homer’s Odyssey which is essentially a record of a man’s journey home (to himself). The trial and tribulations it took to get there.

You should be keeping a similar record, a record of your journey all the trials and tribulations of your life. You may think it is nothing to write home about but you never know what may affect you deeply and if you don’t record it neither will the rest of us, or your progeny. Imagine having a record of your great grandmother’s travel from a large eastern city to the plains of Nebraska to meet and marry her husband, as my Great Grandmother did. What a journey, what true trial and tribulations, what fear and anger and happiness (I hope) would a story like that contain. What we view as mundane and mediocre may be highly interesting 100 years from now. I know I would love to read the accounts of my grandparents as they journeyed across the ocean to get to this country. What they saw, thought, and felt as they uprooted themselves from home and hearth in pursuit of something better and bigger than what they thought possible.


What a gift a book like that would be. What a gift to yourself. What a gift to your children and their children. You don’t have to be Hemingway or Shakespeare to write. You can write in bullet points if you want. You can write just a few lines or a paragraph if you want. The only rule is to get it down on paper or in the computer (save and back up!). You can do it. We want to see your journey. But most of all you can look back and see your accomplishments. You can browse back through your book and chart your own progress. You will be amazed at what you do, how far you travel without really trying.

Keep a journal. It isn’t hard but it is most definitely worth it.

Namaste

John Mariotti

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Sunday Story…Father’s Day

This one has been hard for me to write.

I am a Father. I am also a Grandfather. I am not always proud of the father I have been. I wish I would have been more like my father but I wasn’t. In 2011 I wrote this:
http://sunday-stories.blogspot.com/2011/06/sunday-storyhappy-fathers.html
about my dad. If you want to read it, please feel free.

I didn’t spend the kind of time I think, in retrospect, my children deserved and needed but that may just my perception now. In Brittany’s case I was a nonexistent entity. It is an ignominy I bear every day; shame on me that was inexcusable. No matter what I felt, or what happened between the two adults in her life I should have been better than that. I wasn’t and I can’t apologize enough.

My other 3 children had a Father who worked a lot…sometimes 18 hours a day and almost never took vacations. I was driven past the point of excess. It didn’t really serve any of us. On the other hand I still do that…drive myself toward goals and commitments that require unprecedented focus and determination. I just don’t have children living at home, or anyone else for that matter! Except for a cat that only cares if she doesn’t get fed.

Hopefully my children felt loved even though I was absent a lot. Hopefully they got the lessons I wanted to impart about the importance of hard work, doing a job well, service and kindness. Hopefully they learned what good things to do for their children and what mistakes to avoid on their own journeys to parenthood.

Unfortunately our children don’t come with an owner’s manual when they arrive (not that all of us would have read it anyway!) We can only do what we think is best at the time we are doing it, based on the examples we have from our families and the people around us. We learn as we go.

On this Father’s day I want to Thank all my children for turning out so well in spite of me and all my faults and miss-steps over the years. They are all grown up and out in the world doing great things with families of their own. And I want to Thank my father for being who he was as my father.

I love you all of you kids.
And
I love you Dad.

Namaste

John Mariotti
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Sunday Story…What (it took)

When I was coming up in high school wrestling there was a guy named Dan Gable out of Iowa who won the 1972 Olympic gold medal. Legend has it that he lived by this credo…”7 hours a day, 7 days a week, for 7 years. That’s what it took.” So what has it taken to get my 57 year old rear to the 2014 CrossFit Games?

Aside from the obvious dedication and commitment over the last year:
Workouts:
I have had workouts scheduled at least 5 of every 7 days and frequently 6 out of 7.
My workouts usually take over an hour and as much as 2 hours. This doesn’t include warm up or cool down.
I spend 3 or 4 hours a week on “mobility” work (and this isn’t enough!)
I have had dedicated Olympic lifting sessions once a week for the first 6 months and twice a week for the last 6 months.
My coach(es) have me doing specific stability and mobility exercises.

For recovery:
I visit an Active release doctor once a week.
I have been doing cryotherapy (go to http://www.cryousa.com/ for more info) once a week or so since February.
I try to sleep 7-9 hours every night…successfully most of the time.

Diet:
I eat real natural food 99% of the time. In the last 6 months or so I have added more potatoes and white rice than in the last 2 or 3 years. In some circles that would not be “paleo”. I do use whey protein from SFH (100% grassfed), fish oil (9 grams a day), branched chain amino acids (BCAA), as well as several other supplements from different natural products companies. These products come recommended to me by people I know and trust (Robb Wolf, Stephen Cherniske) and are designed to aid in recovery and avoid possible dietary deficiencies based on my out of sight activity level.

I have and continue to experience several injuries over the last year. None of them have been severe enough to stop me or slow my activity significantly. In this regard I have been very fortunate but I am skirting the edge of disaster on this one. That is why the mobility, ART, and other recovery practices are so important.

My social life is fairly non-existent. I eat, sleep, and train. I prepare all my food a week at a time. I think about my training or programming for the athletes I coach. This has been an all encompassing journey… a quest, if you will. There have been times I wondered if it was worth it. There have been times when I wanted to quit, to stop, to call CJ Martin and tell him I was out. There are still days when I wonder if I am good enough, that I am going to show up in Los Angeles in 6 weeks and get laughed out of the stadium. Then I get reminded of how far I have come…all the things I can do today…better, faster, longer…that I could not do just a few months ago.

I wouldn’t trade all of the pain and struggle of the last 12 months for anything. It has been a transformative and amazing metamorphosis. And I would do it again, even if I wasn’t going to the Games in a few weeks.

So, to all of you reading this and all the things I write, Thanks for your support both publically and privately, and expressed and implied. If you want to start your journey to personal excellence, your journey to extraordinary, drop me a line and we can start you down the path as well!

Namaste

John Mariotti
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Sunday Story…What (part 3)

Exercise

Many of you want to know exactly what I have done to get to the CrossFit Games. What exercise protocols did I follow? When and what did I do? And I am going to lay all of that out for you in next week’s issue. But this one’s for you. What do you need to do to be fit and healthy, because, honestly, what I have been doing has moved from optimum wellness to an edge that skirts over-training and an obsessive focus on a specialty fitness regimen.

Here are the 5 things you must do to begin the road to optimum health and fitness

#1 you have to move

It sounds simple, I know, but you really need to move. Walk up the stairs instead of the escalator, or walk on the people moving sidewalk, park further away from the store instead of looking for the closest spot, take a walk after dinner, or ride your bike once in a while. Just move and move often. It doesn’t count as exercise either by the way, it is basic human maintenance…you were made to move, not sit and rust.

#2 you have to pick up heavy stuff often

I want you to pick up heavy things every day. Learn how to do it safely and keep your ego in check but pick up a variety of heavy things in lots of different ways almost every day. Especially squats. This is one of the most critical movements you can do…pick up weight, put it on your back, squat down and stand up. Do it right (get instruction), do it often, and do it in lots of ways.

#3 you have to move really fast sometimes

When you were little you had races all the time, remember? Race you home! Race you to the pole! You were always racing to get somewhere. You need to race again. Go as fast as possible, stop, catch your breath and do it again. Sprint like this 2 or 3 times a week. Combine it with lifting heavy things.

#4 you have to challenge yourself with new stuff

Learning new things does not come easy to us as we age. Just like it is easier to not move it is easier to not do things differently or learn new skills. Learning new skills is critical to our brain health, and let’s get real…without a brain being strong is just dumb. Doing things that make us uncomfortable will serve you in the long run…especially the things that help us maintain balance and flexibility…like being upside down!

#5 you have to play

Just play. Throw a Frisbee, swim for fun, a little beach volleyball, maybe some badminton or croquet…just play. Remember all those games…hide and seek? Kick the can? Kick ball? Tag? Red light, green light? Ask your kids to re-teach you, they are still playing those games. Then just play with no outcome in mind, no winners no losers just play for the sake of playing.

If you do those things every week, you will be well on your way to improved health and fitness. It won’t take long, either, especially if you follow what parts 1 &2 talked about…Eat Real Food and Sleep!

Next week…the competitive construct or the life of the unpaid professional athlete!

Namaste

John Mariotti

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