One of the best practices I have found to keep myself on track and centered is gratitude. When we feel gratitude and express it for the things we have, the things we're doing, the things around us, it allows our outlook to soften and become more inclusive. I am grateful for the beautiful day I see around me. I am thankful for the body I live in, which moves so well, that has supported me for all these years, and for all the things I have done. I have gratitude for the people around me. The things they do, the things that they've taught me, the things that I have managed to understand and receive from them.
Years ago, in the San Francisco Bay Area, there were
several restaurants called The Gratitude Cafe. The real fun and connective part
of The Gratitude Cafe was that all the dishes had writing around the edges and at
the bottom that were affirmations: "You are wonderful!" "You are
beautiful!" "You are strong!" All the items on the menu carried
the same kinds of messages. "You are beautiful!" It was a milkshake
made with almond milk, nuts, and this and that. And when you ordered it, the server
repeated it. So, you said, "I'll have an 'I am beautiful,'" and the servers
would say, "One 'I am beautiful'!" And then the kitchen would be
constantly yelling these things out: "I am beautiful!" "You are
wonderful!" Things like that, and when they brought it to the table, same
thing: "You are wonderful!" "You are beautiful!" It was an
experience in gratitude, thus the name Gratitude Cafe.
The food was secondary to the experience that you
left with, which was one of gratitude. Gratitude may be the single most
important attitude you can bring into the world. Expressing gratitude out loud
to the people around me inspires them to find gratitude as well. We can always
find gratitude even in the worst circumstances. This is the meaning of finding
a silver lining in every cloud. There's always something to be grateful for,
even in the darkest days. As Viktor Frankl points out, "The one freedom
nobody can ever take away from you is your freedom to choose your
attitude," and that means the freedom to choose an attitude of gratitude,
even in the face of ugliness, trials, and tribulations.
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John Mariotti
www.sunday-stories.blogspot.com
775-338-2412

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